Monday, October 02, 2006

I conceed, there is a thing called QLC !!!

Approx reading time: 6 minutes

Before i explain the title of my post, i think it is important for me to mention, that i have been at work, since 5:30 am this morning (and its Monday) THATS how stressed/crazy/dedicated i am ...

okay, before you start spinning cartwheels My confused friend read on... Quarter-life-crisis, does exist, as Zee has previously mentioned, BUT, recent events have lead me to the conclusion, that only men go through it, and us, lucky females that we are, are thankfully saved from this life-altering event.

This is the story that has convinced me of this theory;

My best Shakeera(who has mentioned in previous posts) was introduced to this guy a couple of months back.. things were going really well, they met up a few time, he use dto go and visit her at her business, blah blah, and there was even talk of marriage.. YIPPEEE. I was with her about two weeks ago, having lunch when he phoned, and spoke to her, told her he was gonna come and visit her that day or the next. That evening she calls me, and tells me the jerk, sent her a three-part sms, Saying how sorry he is, he doesnt think its going to work out, He makes Dua that she finds somebody who is worthy of her blah blah blah...

Firstly:
he sends her the message at 8pm, when he knows that she gives extra tution at this time, so she cannot reason straight away...
- The sms came through in stages, one every 5 minutes and took approx. 2 minutes to update each time (compliments to our very efficient service providers)
- Then, when she was done with her students, she called him, he didnt answer the call.. Called her back after half an hour... and rudely asked her what she wanted... to which she replied" an explanation for the sms that i received"
He got all angry on the phone, didnt discuss anything properly, started screaming loudly at her, and has the damn cheek to tell her, that he had to do it at that time, becuase he felt that she was "in love with him" so, she told him that she is NOT in love with, she liked him, yes, but, thats as far as it got...
she asked him for a reason, and he , dumb shit that he is.. couldnt give her a single reason !!! NOT ONE!!! ZILCH ... the only thing he said was " its not you , its me" They then said goodbye!!!

Then, the dude has the nerve to call her , after one week, at sehri time, for a doctor's number becuase his room-mate was ill.... bloody nerve!!! and two days after that, (on the fourth fast) he sends her an sms saying Ramadaan Mubarak !!!!
I was furious with this idiot, i think i was more upset than Shaks.. I mean, can you get any dumber, why must he waste her time, talk about marriage and how he is bringing his family to propsoe after Eid, then break-up via sms, and still have the freaking nerve to call for a doctor's number, oh yeah, he also told her, he would like to continue talking to her, and if she is still single after about a year, then, thay can get married... Like hell... Can men not understand, that when a relationship is ended, no communication is sought therafter, no "hello, how you doing every now and again.. Its nmeant to be a clean break... GOODBYE, GOOD RIDDANCE, GO TO HELL for all we care...

ANd dont call when you recover from your QLC.... IF you ever recover from it at all... !!!!!

6 comments:

My dartboard said...

Whoa tiger. Easy there.
Not only men have this quarter life crisis. I mean that is a relationship blunder on two legs, they talk the talk but cant walk the walk. I had that last year with some girl who turned from Jeckyl to jackass in 4 seconds flat (beat that AMG). Point is that is not a QLC, that is just plain retarded and an advert for why mothers should not smoke or take copius amounts or narcotics during pregnancy. The Result? The living brain donor you just described. :)

OH

Muhammad said...

Slms Ruby...

oi, people like that make me ashamed to be human. That is a pretty sick situation. But, unfortunately, I've heard it before. Maybe all these idiots have some sort of collective conciousness or something.

word.

M.

Anonymous said...

I felt like swearing when I read your post.
WHERE in the world do morons like this come from?
What an idiot.
He certainly has no brain.

UGH!

*punches the desk and sobs in pain*

idiot.

Saaleha Idrees Bamjee said...

what a clown.

It may not be evident now, but there is a wisdom to this. With hindsight (yeah,the ass-view) she'll soon realise just how lucky she was to be given an exit point.

Shafinaaz Hassim said...

oii

another one of thOse hey!

tell shaakira i said :
cOnGrAtUlAtIonS!!!
phew! that was CLOSE!
i mean.. she couldve ended up MarrrYing That Thing!

someone upstairs LUVS her ALOT :))

zee said...

i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so i told u so

that being said...thats not QLC...thats just being an asshole! Thats being a typical guy if you'd like to say it ruby;)

but he's gonna regret it. definately.

PS: gimme the link next time when u put uo my name...u know for my vanity:) actually, u can edit this one and the one b4 and put my link....im serious! :))))))